What will you accomplish if you feel more confident?

You have plans

You may be over 40 but you know that you still haven't fulfilled your full potential yet.

So much time is still ahead of you.

There are things you want to do and create!

There are skills you want to explore!

You want to feel confident about yourself and your body.

You don't want to feel so anxious around other people and care so much about their opinions.

You want to feel confident about your capabilities to do the things you want.

The problem is, whenever you get ready to put your plans and ideas into action, something always seems to be getting in the way.

And before you know it, you're stuck.

You don't feel you can do it.

You can't find the time and procrastinate.

You can't seem to change your opinion about yourself, or other people.

You don't feel you have the energy and need a rest more often that you'd like.

I get it. This used to be me!

It's not because you are not capable.

It's just that you let your doubts get in the way.

We feel excited, confident and creative some days but then on others we get anxious, lack confidence and do nothing.

Why can’t It just be easy?

It’s not because there’s something wrong with you.

Self doubt happens when you start to step outside of your comfort zone or make new plans:

  • You get overwhelmed by all the things you need to do.
  • You think that you don’t know enough to even start.
  • You worry about what others will think of you.
  • Any old (and sometimes forgotten) insecurities can surface again, which just feels very painful.
  • You can start to feel anxious and lose confidence

It’s because your brain likes to stay comfortable and doesn’t want to do new things. It prefers to do what it has always done.

Let's turn that around and replace self doubt with confidence instead

When you feel confident, you take action and you're not afraid to pursue your goals.

The good news is: Self confidence is a feeling you can actively generate within yourself.

When you feel confident you:

  • Trust yourself and your capabilities
  • Do something because you want to (and don't worry about the opinion of others)!
  • Take action rather than procrastinate!
  • Don't panic when things go wrong
  • Feel confident with who you are and how you look
  • Achieve success in your work or business, make more money and feel independent.
  • Feel stronger, happier and ready for the second half in life!

There are no limits to what you can accomplish when you feel more confident

Introducing:  the self confidence formula!

The 4 step self confidence formula will show you how to build confidence from the inside-out, so you can skip the self doubt and take action on your goals and dreams

At the end of the program you'll step away as a more confident woman, ready to live an amazingly purposeful, adventurous and abundant life!

Want to know the details?

The self confidence formula is a 4 module program, ideally taken over 4 weeks, based on the ABLE self confidence formula.

Module 1 : Awareness

The first step towards more confidence is to become aware of your thinking and why you aren't confident yet. You will learn some simple tools that will increase your awareness and will stop you from getting stuck. 

Module 2: Believe

Once you've become aware of old beliefs and behaviors that aren't helping you, you'll learn how to think differently and truly believe in yourself. Learn some simple techniques and tools that allow you to believe in yourself.

Module 3: Lots of action

Taking the right kind of action is a critical step in your path towards self confidence. In this module you'll learn what kind of action to take and how this will increase your confidence and get you closer to your goal. 

Module 4: Evaluate

In this module you'll learn how to evaluate and tweak what worked and what didn't. You'll create your action plan towards strengthening your confidence and achieve your goals.

4 modules + workbooks

You'll get instant access to all modules, which you can complete in your own time although we recommend 1 module per week.

All assignments are optional but highly recommended. They will give you much clarity and the self coaching work you will do, will accellerate your progress towards your goals.

Get access to 7 recorded group coaching calls

Discover the benefits of coaching as you see how I walk various women through their challenges.

You'll find that you get just as much value from watching other women being coaching as you do when you get coached yourself.

Bonus 1: Live group coaching

group coaching

Every month I conduct live group coaching & Q&A sessions where I can help you with any mindset or confidence issue that comes up.

You'll get the opportunity to attend these live sessions for one whole year.

Bonus 2: pick an extra confidence boosting masterclass

Style yourself confident

Learn the best style tips and discover how you  can use style to boost your confidence further

Stop overwhelm & Get it done!

Learn how to get more confident in yourself that you can get it DONE.

Start your business or side-gig

Get the confidence and skills you need to make your side gig or business a success!

This is a brilliant program, so clear and well organized and extremely practical. I'd recommend this program to any woman. no matter what age, who is struggling with self-confidence, making decisions, and feels stuck in their lives. - Irene

I'll be your coach & guide

Hi I'm Sylvia! My confidence level used to be VERY low, but I found the exact formula to turn it around. Here are just a few things that happened after 40:

  • From feeling unfulfilled and feeling depressed I developed a passion into a multiple 6 figure online business that has reached millions. 
  • From feeling too reliant on the approval of others, I became independent and developed a strong relationship with myself & others.  
  • From being insecure about how I looked, I now accept that I'm perfect just the way that I am.
  • From being anxious in social situations, I now socialize with confidence.

When you start to truly believe in yourself and become self confident, there is no limit to what you can accomplish 

I'd love to teach you how to do that. I'd love to show you that it's possible for you too.

I'd love to be your coach

You'll benefit from my 20 years of experience as an entrepreneur, stylist, confidence & business coach.

Who is this program for?

This program is for you if you're ready to make a change from the inside out and want to create a life you love.  You're committed to making a change and feeling confident so you can believe in yourself and be the creator of your own life.

I credit much of my online success to Sylvia. When I have suffered from imposter syndrome, Sylvia's mental and practical support has helped clear away the fog so I can move forward. In fact, I am on IG because Sylvia saw how it would be a great medium for me; she quashed my doubts and I haven't looked back! Her own business success has always been a model, but her ability to bolster my confidence has had a positive impact on all the new challenges I face.

Mel Kobayashi

Sylvia was able to provide me with “aha!” moments at every session and a different way of looking at a situation that opened my mind. I gained tangible tools and results in my life. She would ask the right questions that would be super helpful. In addition, she provided some invaluable feedback for my life and business. If you have the opportunity to work with Sylvia, do so. You won't regret it.

Karen K.

Sylvia is the one that encouraged me to start a blog 7 years ago which I still absolutely love doing. She is still my blog "mentor" as she "pushes" me to start new things. In essence I am a very lazy person, not keen to learn new things although my colleagues and friends would be surprised to hear this. Sylvia is the complete opposite, always trying to improve herself, learn new stuff, better herself. I immensely admire that. She is responsible for me using Lightroom, Google Analytics and Instagram to mention a few. I love her force.

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let’s look at the incredible value you will get

The core program has a value of at least


The bonuses alone
are worth over


Together that
is worth


But you won’t pay anything NEAR that.

That’s because I KNOW that this program and the coaching you'll receive can change your life.
And right now I want this program to be accessible to as many women as possible.
That’s why I am not going to ask for $1,500
Or even half of that.
Or even half of that again.
The special price for this program — which includes 4 modules & workbooks, access to 7 recorded coaching calls, 1 year complementary access to weekly coaching sessions + your special bonus masterclass training is

only $1500 $197

Just think… what is more confidence worth to you? What would it be worth to love yourself more? Or being able to do things that you've always been afraid to do?

I was impressed with Sylvia's in depth understanding of what people are struggling with. Her approach is very logical. She brings to the table so much wisdom that appears to come to her so easily and so naturally. I specially appreciated the workbooks because they gave me the opportunity to sit with myself, explore my inner fears and concerns, develop a deeper understanding of them, get more acquainted with their nature, and come up with potential strategies to effectively deal with them, or as Sylvia calls it "learning to self-coach". Mara

still not sure?

Let me highlight some of the key benefits of developing true self confidence.

Feel happier

Instead of worrying what others think, you can truly be yourself and live life on your terms!

Look better

Self confidence is the best style accessory. When you feel confident, you'll look good no matter what you wear.

More money

Getting results in your life comes from taking the right actions. And you need to feel confident to take them.

Get more done

When you trust yourself, you can make quicker decisions and you'll follow through on your commitments.

Better relationships

When you love yourself and feel confident with who you are, you're instantly attractive to others as well. 

More resilience

When you have true self confidence, you know that you'll be able to deal with any emotion and situation.

I never imagined that I could get so many ahas from listening to others stories. Even though i was unable to be live on some of the calls, watching others be coached was hugely beneficial. I have got clear around what thoughts have been holding me back and the reason for my lack of results. I have been able to move towards my goal and it now is within reach. In addition, I have realised that uncomfortable feelings are simply a sign post that I am moving towards my goal rather than a reason to quit. I would recommend the programme to anyone feeling stuck and frustrated who is battling to move forward in their life. - Lyn

Frequently Asked Questions

Q. How is this program conducted?

Once you enroll you'll receive an email that will give you the details to get instant access to the Self Confidence Formula. This is a self-study program. The Self Confidence Formula lessons and coaching sessions can be watched at a time that is convenient to you. Each lesson will include a workbook that you can use to further your learning.

As your bonus you will also get one year access to the monthly live coaching calls and will have the opportunity to be coached. 

Your second workshop bonus will become available towards the end of the month.

Q. I need this, but now is not the right time

Here's the truth. There will NEVER be a 'right' time. You'll never be ready. You'll never have the time. Isn't that always the case when you want to do something important for yourself? The only right time is right now. Don't procrastinate on your best self any longer.

Q. I don't really enjoy looking inwards, it makes me feel uncomfortable

Think about the discomfort you feel right now? Would you rather choose this continuous discomfort or are you willing to feel the discomfort of growth to achieve your dream life? In the program you'll learn how to cope with short term discomfort in order to gain long term confidence and resilience. 

Q. I'm worried about privacy and like to stay anonymous. Is that possible?

Yes, since this is a self study program, you will be completely anonymous in this program unless you choose to be coached during the monthly sessions. 

Q. I'm worried about this program because it’s online and I’m not very technical. Will I run into problems?

No worries! We have kept the site super simple and easy to navigate.
If you ever do run into troubles, you can reach out to us and our team will be happy to answer any technical questions you might have.

Q. Do I have to be on Facebook?

No we will not use Facebook in any part of the program. The focus will be on you and your growth and I don't want you to get distracted by others or social media. 

Q. In what currency is the price?

All quoted prices are in US$

Q. What happens after I paid?

You will get a welcome email with your access info to the site and get started with the program right away. If you can’t find the email, please check your Junk Mail folder or send a note to support@sylviavandelogt.com. 

Q. What is your refund policy?

I recommend enrolling for this program only when you're 100% committed. You will not get any results if you don't watch the trainings or complete the workbooks. Your life will change when you commit to that. However, in the unlikely event that after 30 days, you didn't feel that this program benefited you, you can request a full refund.

Q. How Much Time Will I Need To Devote To This Program?

We understand that you are busy. That’s why we keep our trainings short. No video lesson in the Self Confidence Formula takes more than half an hour. Your optional exercizes can be done in as little as 10 min per day. 

Are you ready for more confidence
and accomplish your goals?

 Whitney Houston was right when she sang that 'learning to love yourself is the greatest gift of all'.

When you feel confident in yourself, you'll be able to say no, you'll trust your own judgement, you'll take the right actions to achieve your goals, you'll be able to cope with uncertain circumstances so much better and you'll honor yourself no matter what. 

The Self Confidence Formula will help you do that. 

I promise you, implementing the tools you learn in this program will change your life forever. 

Let's tap into your fullest, truest potential and become the best version of YOU!


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