What will you accomplish if you feel more confident?

You have plans

You may be over 40 but you know that you still haven't fulfilled your full potential yet.

So much time is still ahead of you.

There are things you want to do and create!

There are skills you want to explore!

You want to feel confident about yourself and your body.

You don't want to feel so anxious around other people and care so much about their opinions.

You want to feel confident about your capabilities to do the things you want.

The problem is, whenever you get ready to put your plans and ideas into action, something always seems to be getting in the way.

And before you know it, you're stuck.

You don't feel you can do it.

You can't find the time and procrastinate.

You can't seem to change your opinion about yourself, or other people.

You don't feel you have the energy and need a rest more often that you'd like.

I get it. This used to be me!

It's not because you are not capable.

It's just that you let your doubts get in the way.

We feel excited, confident and creative some days but then on others we get anxious, lack confidence and do nothing.

Why can’t It just be easy?

It’s not because there’s something wrong with you.

Self doubt happens when you start to step outside of your comfort zone or make new plans:

  • You get overwhelmed by all the things you need to do.
  • You think that you don’t know enough to even start.
  • You worry about what others will think of you.
  • Any old (and sometimes forgotten) insecurities can surface again, which just feels very painful.
  • You can start to feel anxious and lose confidence

It’s because your brain likes to stay comfortable and doesn’t want to do new things. It prefers to do what it has always done.

Let's turn that around and replace self doubt with confidence instead

When you feel confident, you take action and you're not afraid to pursue your goals.

The good news is: it's never too late to build self confidence!

Self confidence is a feeling you can actively generate within yourself.

When you feel confident you:

  • Trust yourself and your capabilities
  • Do something because you want to (and don't worry about the opinion of others)!
  • Take action rather than procrastinate!
  • Don't panic when things go wrong
  • Feel confident with who you are and how you look
  • Achieve success in your work or business, make more money and feel independent.
  • Feel stronger, happier and ready for the second half in life!

Your brain wants to keep things easy for you, which is why it starts feeding you thoughts that you can't do it, that it's too hard, that you should just keep doing things that are comfortable instead.

It may trick you into thinking that you're not capable.

If you’re not careful you may actually believe those critical thoughts and give up on your dreams altogether.

And when that happens nothing will change and you stay stuck

You may buffer with food, alcohol or other things to get rid of the feeling of being unfulfilled.

Or go shopping and spend too much on things you don't really need.

Perhaps you stay in relationships that no longer serve you.

And you're not tapping into your true potential and pursue your dreams.

There are no limits to what you can accomplish when you feel more confident

Introducing:  the self confidence formula!

My proven method for women who want to feel more confident and tap into their true potential.

The 4 step self confidence formula will show you how to build confidence from the inside-out, so you can skip the self doubt and take action on your goals and dreams

At the end of the program you'll step away as a more confident woman, ready to live an amazingly purposeful, adventurous and abundant life!

I'll be your coach & guide

Hi I'm Sylvia! My confidence level used to be VERY low, but I found the exact formula to turn it around. Here are just a few things that happened after 40:

  • From feeling unfulfilled and feeling depressed I developed a passion into a multiple 6 figure online business that has reached millions. 
  • From feeling too reliant on the approval of others, I became independent and developed a strong relationship with myself.  
  • From being insecure about how I looked, I now accept that I'm perfect just the way that I am.
  • From being anxious in social situations, I now socialize with confidence.

When you start to truly believe in yourself and become self confident, there is no limit to what you can accomplish 

I'd love to teach you how to do that. I'd love to show you that it's possible for you too.

I'd love to be your coach

You'll benefit from my 20 years of experience as an entrepreneur, stylist and certified life coach coach.

Want to know the details?

The self confidence formula is a 4 week interactive program, based on my ABLE self confidence framework.

It will be delivered to you in 4 weekly lessons (including workbooks) + 4 weekly group coaching and Q&A sessions.

Module 1 : Becoming Aware: why aren't you confident yet?

The first step towards more confidence and change is to become aware. You will learn a simple method to discover the source of your self doubt and how to stop it in its tracks.

Module 2: What do you need to believe about yourself and your capabilities

Once you've become aware of old beliefs and behaviors that aren't helping you, you'll learn how to think differently and truly believe in yourself.

Module 3: How to take lots of action to build confidence

Taking action is a critical step in your path towards self confidence and in this week you'll learn how to take the right actions and get more confident with every action you take. 

Module 4: Evaluate, tweak and make your action plan

In this week you'll learn how to evaluate and tweak along the way and get more confident in the process. You'll create your action plan towards strengthening your confidence and achieve your goals.

4 modules + workbooks

You'll get instant access to all modules, which you can complete in your own time although we recommend 1 module per week.

All assignments are optional but highly recommended. They will give you much clarity and the self coaching work you will do, will accellerate your progress towards your goals.

Live weekly group coaching

You'll have the opportunity to be coached weekly by Sylvia or ask her any questions. All coaching sessions are online and will be recorded so everyone in the program can benefit.

This is a unique opportunity to get world-class coaching at a fraction of the rate that you'd normally pay.

Bonus live training

Each month we'll tackle a new topic in depth that further helps you to tap into your truest, fullest potential.

Ask Sylvia

You'll have the opportunity to ask Sylvia questions and get coached in writing every day. You can ask any questions anonymously.

I credit much of my online success to Sylvia. When I have suffered from imposter syndrome, Sylvia's mental and practical support has helped clear away the fog so I can move forward. In fact, I am on IG because Sylvia saw how it would be a great medium for me; she quashed my doubts and I haven't looked back! Her own business success has always been a model, but her ability to bolster my confidence has had a positive impact on all the new challenges I face.

Mel Kobayashi

Sylvia was able to provide me with “aha!” moments at every session and a different way of looking at a situation that opened my mind. I gained tangible tools and results in my life. She would ask the right questions that would be super helpful. In addition, she provided some invaluable feedback for my life and business. If you have the opportunity to work with Sylvia, do so. You won't regret it.

Karen K.

Sylvia is the one that encouraged me to start a blog 7 years ago which I still absolutely love doing. She is still my blog "mentor" as she "pushes" me to start new things. In essence I am a very lazy person, not keen to learn new things although my colleagues and friends would be surprised to hear this. Sylvia is the complete opposite, always trying to improve herself, learn new stuff, better herself. I immensely admire that. She is responsible for me using Lightroom, Google Analytics and Instagram to mention a few. I love her force.

Greetje Kamminga

Who is this program for?

This program is for you if you're ready to make a change from the inside out and want to create a life you love. You're prepared to take massive action, do weekly exercises and are open to coaching. You're committed to making a change and feeling confident so you can believe in yourself and be the creator of your own life.

The program is not for you if you're just an observer and expect that things will change by itself. If you're not willing to be introspective and examine what causes your current results, nor are willing to take the necesery actions to change things, don't participate in this program.

still not sure?

Let me highlight some of the key benefits of developing true self confidence.

Feel happier

Instead of worrying what others think, you can truly be yourself and live life on your terms!

Look better

Self confidence is the best style accessory. When you feel confident, you'll look good no matter what you wear.

More money

Getting results in your life comes from taking the right actions. And you need to feel confident to take them.

Get more done

When you trust yourself, you can make quicker decisions and you'll follow through on your commitments.

Better relationships

When you love yourself and feel confident with who you are, you're instantly attractive to others as well. 

More resilience

When you have true self confidence, you know that you'll be able to deal with any emotion and situation.

This is a brilliant program, so clear and well organized and extremely practical. I'd recommend this program to any woman. no matter what age, who is struggling with self-confidence, making decisions, and feels stuck in their lives.


My biggest AHA moment is that I can take any obstacle and turn it into a strategy to achieve my goal. Sylvia thank you for packing so much into such a short period of time. Your passion for teaching others and sharing your expertise shines through the work you do with your students / clients. It's been a very valuable month of learning. I know that I will be able to apply these strategies in many different situations


I definitely recommend Sylvia's program to everyone. She has a lot of experience and she motivates and supports you in a wonderful way. She asks exactly the right questions and you also learn to coach yourself. I got so many clicks in my mind - she solved some of my problems which I could never solve alone.


I was impressed with Sylvia's in depth understanding of what people are struggling with. Her approach is very logical. She brings to the table so much wisdom that appears to come to her so easily and so naturally. I specially appreciated the workbooks because they gave me the opportunity to sit with myself, explore my inner fears and concerns, develop a deeper understanding of them, get more acquainted with their nature, and come up with potential strategies to effectively deal with them, or as Sylvia calls it "learning to self-coach".


I never imagined that I could get so many ahas from listening to others stories. Even though i was unable to be live on some of the calls, watching others be coached was hugely beneficial. I have got clear around what thoughts have been holding me back and the reason for my lack of results. I have been able to move towards my goal and it now is within reach. In addition, I have realised that uncomfortable feelings are simply a sign post that I am moving towards my goal rather than a reason to quit. I would recommend the programme to anyone feeling stuck and frustrated who is battling to move forward in their life.


bonus: get one of these ADDITIONAL trainings

In addition to the Self Confidence Formula you'll also get access to a masterclass of your choice.

Get things done

Do you never get through your to-do list?

Try our proven system that I personally use to get really organized.

Business success

Do you want to be successful with your own business? This is the masterclass for you. Tap into my 20+ years of experience.

Style confidence

Want to finally FEEL and look good in your clothes.

This masterclass will get you right on track and change your style forever!

let’s look at the incredible value you will get

The core program + live coaching
has a value of at least


Your bonus has
a value of


Together that
is worth


But you won’t pay anything NEAR that.

That’s because I KNOW that this program and the coaching you'll receive can change your life.
And right now I want this program to be accessible to as many women as possible.
That’s why I am not going to ask for $2,097.
Or even half of that.
Or even half of that again.
The special introductory price for this program — which includes 1 month membership to the True Potential Academy with weekly training, weekly live group coaching, continuous support from Sylvia and access to the latest new training is

only $279

Then, for each month after it's just $97 per month (unless you cancel).

Just think… what is more confidence worth to you? What would it be worth to love yourself more? Or being able to do things that you've always been afraid to do?

Frequently Asked Questions

Q. How is this program conducted?

The Self Confidence Formula lessons can be watched at a time that is convenient to you. Each lesson will include a workbook that you can use to further your learning.

Every week, we will also have a live Q&A / coaching session. If you like to interact with Sylvia, get coaching from her or ask her any questions, you are encouraged to attend. However, this session will also be recorded and can be accessed at a time that is convenient to you.

In addition, new live trainings and workbooks will be released regularly which you will get access to as well.

You have access to this program as well as any other live trainings you were apart of + the weekly coaching sessions for as long as you remain a member of the True Potential Academy. 

Q. I need this, but now is not the right time

Here's the truth. There will NEVER be a 'right' time. You'll never be ready. You'll never have the time. Isn't that always the case when you want to do something important for yourself? The only right time is right now. Don't procrastinate on your best self any longer.

Q. I don't really enjoy looking inwards, it makes me feel uncomfortable

Think about the discomfort you feel right now? Would you rather choose this continuous discomfort or are you willing to feel the discomfort of growth to achieve your dream life? In the program you'll learn how to cope with short term discomfort in order to gain long term confidence and resilience. 

Q. What's does the coaching involve?

Coaching can help you progress so much faster. It will help identify where your blind spots are and why you don't feel as confident as you would like. Coaching is not about delving into the past, but rather is very future focused. It gives you an outsider's perspective and will help you identify the best strategies that will get you the desired results so much quicker.

All the coaching sessions are conducted online and only accessible to active members of the program.

Q. When are the live coaching calls?

Coaching calls are held during various times througout the month to accommodate different time zones. All calls will be recorded so it's not a problem if you can't attend live.

Q. Can I ask question in between sessions?

Yes! You can ask Sylvia questions or feedback on your own coaching at any time during the week through an online form. Questions are usually answered within 24 hours.

Q. Can I ask questions about style too?

You can ask questions or get coaching about any topic where you want to get more confidence in your life. That includes style. It's currently the only place where I can personally help you with your style and can give you feedback.

Q. I'm worried about privacy and like to stay anonymous. Is that possible?

Yes, you can be completely anonymous in this program. In the live sessions, it is preferred that you show your face when you want to receive coaching but this is not required. All questions are asked anonymously.

Q. I'm worried about this program because it’s online and I’m not very technical. Will I run into problems?

No worries! We have kept the site super simple and easy to navigate.
If you ever do run into troubles, you can reach out to us and our team will be happy to answer any technical questions you might have.

Q. Do I have to be on Facebook?

No we will not use Facebook in any part of the program. The focus will be on you and your growth and I don't want you to get distracted by others or social media. 

Q. In what currency is the price?

All quoted prices are in US$

Q. What happens after I paid?

You will get a welcome email with your access info to the site and get started with the program right away. If you can’t find the email, please check your Junk Mail folder or send a note to support@sylviavandelogt.com. 

Q. What is your refund policy?

There is no refund for this program. And the reason is that I don't want you going into this program 'just to have a look'. I want you to be ALL IN. This program will only give you results if you come here with that attitude.

Q. How Much Time Will I Need To Devote To This Program?

We understand that you are busy. That’s why we keep our trainings short. No video lesson takes more than half an hour. Your optional daily self coaching / exercizes can be done in as little as 10 min. The optional live weekly coaching sessions will be 1 hour. Ideally you will devote 2 hours per week to this program.

Are you ready for more confidence
and accomplish your goals?

Yes, I realize that you probably have a lot on your plate right now.

But at a time like this, it's even more important to get clear on your priorities and to be secure in who you are.  

Whitney Houston was right when she sang that 'learning to love yourself is the greatest gift of all'.

When you feel confident in yourself, you'll be able to say no, you'll trust your own judgement, you'll take the right actions to achieve your goals, you'll be able to cope with uncertain circumstances so much better and you'll honor yourself no matter what. 

The Self Confidence Formula will help you do that. 

I promise you, implementing the tools you learn in this program will change your life forever. 

Let's tap into your fullest, truest potential and become the best version of YOU!


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